Brenda Dembow

Brenda Dembow (nee Sanzari), 71, of Hackensack and Beach Haven West, passed away on Monday, May 18, 2020. Beloved wife of the late Richard. Cherished mother of Kathleen De Feo and her husband Robert of Northvale and the late Richard Dembow, Jr.  Adored grandmother of Brianna and Nicholas. Dearest sister of the late Benny Sanzari.

Brenda was a Clerk for the USPS in South Hackensack for many years. She liked nothing better than spending time with family and friends. She loved to take trips near and far and always loved to tell a good story. Brenda will be greatly missed by those she held dear.

A Memorial Mass will be celebrated on Friday, July 10, 2020 at 10 AM at St. Francis Church, Hackensack with burial to follow at St. Joseph’s Cemetery, Hackensack.

Arrangements by Pizzi Funeral Home, Northvale.


  1. Brenda ,,,Always had a smile on her face and greeted you with open arms she would give you the shirt off her back and and was always there when you needed an ear to listen when you were down she was a good friend kind considerate and loving person with a positive attitude and she truly will be missed.

  2. My heart is broken over the loss of my dear friend. I will never forget the times we had at work (the Witch Dance and Adam Sandlerand how fast your little legs chased me with that Watermelon Cake) and down the shore. I will never forget how you shared yourself with us with so much love and joy, even in the sad times we found a way to laugh while we cried. Your advice and stories will never leave me. You will be so missed my friend.

  3. Joe and Carol

    To the family of Brenda,
    We send our deepest condolences on your loss.
    Joe and Carol Baeli

  4. Rita Castora O’Hare

    So sorry to hear of the death of Brenda. She was a fellow classmate from Jr. High school right through High School in Hackensack. She will always be remembered for her big smile and wonderful personality.

  5. RIP Brenda.

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